Friends from Sudan

Some of you remember Dave going to the airport the day before Thanksgiving.  He was going because his friend Alfred's wife was coming in from Sudan.  Alfred has been in the U.S. since 2005 and only went back to see his family once, in 2008.  For many years they've been working hard to obtain Visas for his wife and their three children. His wife, Adhol, finally received her Visa and was able to come to KC in November. They are still working toward getting the children over here.  They have an 11-year old son and twin 9-year old girls.  Pray that they will be united sooner, than later.

Dave invited Alfred and Adhol to dinner last night.  It was the first American home Adhol had been in. She was quite impressed.  She loved the carpet!  I served a simple meal of Paul Bunyon burgers and tossed salad, with fresh pineapple for dessert.

They also liked our Christmas tree, commenting on how BIG it was. And they weren't taken aback by the funky shape of the top!  No one visiting our house leaves without trying out our Christmas tree glasses.

We asked them what Christmas was like in Sudan. They told us about a week long celebration, with lots of dancing, cooking goat or cow, a present for everyone and happiness.

Since we have a wedding in the family soon, we asked them about weddings in Sudan.  They told us it's a long 4-5 day celebration too - again with lots of dancing, cooking, eating.  They start in one location then move to the in-laws in groups - some with just women, old and young, some with men, old and young. Very different from our customs and very interesting.

Adhol has been here less than a month and the adjustment has been difficult.  She misses her children dearly. When God brings her and Alfred to mind, pray for comfort and peace for her and that their children will get their Visas soon.